What are the consequences if we have had too little love in our youth
Our development is going fast in our youth. Our brain consisting of a conscious and unconscious brain processes the entire day what we see, hear, but also experience. That we as human beings need love to be able to live is certain. it’s actually just like oxygen. we cannot live without love.
If love is insufficiently offered in our youth, we develop certain habits that we take with us into adulthood. Studies show that being neglected as a child has consequences for later. We have trouble seeing the song for ourselves. We have trouble allowing the love of another in the right way. the need for love is still so enormous that we are going to attach ourselves to a possible partner in the wrong way.
We cling to the first the best to come. We are so happy that someone sees us, we want to share our live with that person, finally we feel love. We don’t take the time to first check whether the other person suits us. We cling to it and never want to let it go.
We have everything left for the other and for that reason we will not set any limits. Because imagine that you would go against the other. Then he can leave you, you shouldn’t think about that. So you admit everything. This is going to bother you, giving your partner plenty of room to formulate the rules within the relationship. At a certain point you are not happy with this and cracks in the relationship will arise.
If you didn’t receive enough love in your youth, it also means that you will have difficulty sustaining yourself emotionally. you therefore experience something negative as an attack. Or you relate it to yourself.
You will also have difficulty trusting. Self-confidence is lacking, so that you are more likely to believe everyone’s words earlier and faster. This can have nasty consequences. If you add up the emotional immaturity, it means that you will have a very difficult time in the relationship.
You allow everything and you constantly need confirmation from your partner, because self-confidence is lacking. Due to a lack of self-confidence, not controlling emotions, not setting limits, the connection with yourself disappears. Everything is in the sign of the other. If only he likes it.
This way of living is very tiring and no one can hold on. The moment comes automatically when this relationship no longer satisfies her partner. He often seeks salvation from someone else.
Then the bullet goes through the church and she cannot understand why this happens to her. She did everything for him. All of this is a consequence of too little love in her youth, but it does not occur to her yet.
Unfortunately, she has not been able to attach to her partner in the right way, so she loses him. Now comes a very difficult period in which she has hope that he will come back into her life. That will not happen. She will have to let go of the other. And if she is smart, she seeks help. she turns to a Mastermedium who can explain to her exactly what is wrong. What she can work on herself.
She will have to realize that the love she has received has been insufficient. That it’s time to start seeing love for themselves. Self-love is important to maintain a relationship in the right way.
She can work on this together with a Mastermedium. She has a piece to catch up with, which she didn’t get. but she can still learn. It is never too late to start loving yourself.
